The Good Musician

Don’t deprive your children of the so-called “Mozart-Effect“. Engaging in music activates your brain like almost no other activity, studies say. Harness this power and encourage your children to learn music.

But many parents go about in a very wrong way. After 10 years of playing experience, I can tell what should’ve been better in my kiddy days. Points to consider when introducing your child to music:

1. Implement the 5 Pillars of Good Musicians

Don’t just make him or her play an instrument. Show them the different aspects of music, build on the 5 pillars and explain to them how it’s these core principles that can make him the next [insert favorite musician here].

2. Listen to Music with your kid

Making music is like writing. Most good authors read tons more than they actually write. Similarly, grab a bunch of classical, jazz and modern CDs, throw in some of your child’s favorite artists and sit together and just listen.
You don’t have to be experts, but just talk about the music, what you like about it, what instruments are in there, likes and dislikes, try to explain why you like or dislike something. Exposure is key.

3. Choose an instrument wisely

Your child wants to play the guitar? Well, that’s great. But you should take a trip to the music store and look at different options. From the previous excercise you would have discovered what music your child likes and what instruments are prevalent in those styles.

So explore the options: A guitar can be a classical one, a jazz/tock guitar, a western guitar, or even a bass guitar. Orchestras have many instruments you might have never heard of, explore the options. This has two benefits: Picking a rare instrument drives up the market value of your child, and secondly, it’s simply more interesting than the “usual” guitar/piano/violin kid.

4. Practice with them

It’s important to track your child’s progress. Keeping a music homework diary is a good habit. Don’t let them practice on their own in the beginning, sit with them and encourage them strongly, but always drill them to practice slowly and with a fixed goal in mind. We will talk more about practicing techniques in other posts.

5. Stand up for better music education

Find out about the theory instruction in your school. Many schools make students pick an instrument for big band or orchestra, and rotate after a year. This is very, very bad. Your child will never really indulge in music that way. Enforce more theory lessons, solo lessons and make your child go it’s own way. Participating in school music is good, but only a tiny fraction of what your child should be doing. Solo talent is far more important and will benefit your child much more than letting it play in a big band, where the level of expertise is only as high as the weakest member.

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